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Millions of single people – whether never married or recently divorced – put a lot of energy into meeting and dating new people, but because they don’t invest their true selves, their efforts often go nowhere. To counter this trend, Susan Campbell presents an approach to dating that many may consider radical: Be honest about yourself and ask for what you want, up front. Campbell shows people how to have fun by flirting truthfully; date without getting ahead of the r… More >>
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I read every single page of this book and everything in it was right on target. I mean it’s sad but you do have to be yourself. I mean we all at some point in the beginning act like someone were not or fall in love to easily. This book covers and has so many useful advice I don’t feel the need to go on, as you should get the hit.
Another great book I’ve found and let me tell you it changed my life was “How to get the Woman of your dreams using the internet” Now this was another book that opened my eyes and showed me everything I needed to know to be succcessful and also what to watch out for. There are so many scams and terrible people out there in cyberspace. No i’m sorry ladies the Author does have one for you too! “How to get the Man of your dreams using the Internet” All I can say is It WORKS!!
Rating: 5 / 5
When I first met my partner almost 15 years ago, she and I practiced some of the ideas which Susan writes about in this book. We were very clear and upfront with each other about what we wanted and our secrets. The foundation of honesty we laid on our first date has been very reliable for us for all these years.
I like how Susan presents an approach to dating that is quite different from conventional wisdom and people’s old habits when getting to know a new person. Dating without thinking we have to calculate our every move can be so much more relaxing and fulfilling!
I also want to comment on a review here that stated that this book is a book written by a women for women, not men. My experience, as a guy, is that this book speaks to me very strongly.
I have a close friend, who is also a guy, and he frequently tells me that this book has completely changed his approach to dating and has made a huge difference for him. Women, in my experience, like men who are real and transparent. It is a great relief for them. Susan’s work can be a great guide for us men as well!
Rating: 5 / 5
Getting Real, Saying What’s Real, and Truth in Dating are three of Susan Campbell’s books that I have been reading and rereading recently. These books are making a difference in my life.
Keeping relationships alive and living life fully – this is what Susan’s books address.
She has a lifetime of experience working as a therapist, author, coach, and consultant. Based on this experience, she has developed a set of simple principles and tools that we can apply every day of our lives.
I find her ideas very helpful in looking at past relationships – what went right and what went wrong. I feel much more optimistic about creating a solid relationship in the future.
Susan is an excellent writer (and teacher). I recently attended a workshop that Susan lead. I found her to be unpretentious and personable, as well as a good teacher.
I highly recommend her to you.
Rating: 5 / 5
First I read “Saying What’s Real,” which I highlighted until it looks like a rainbow. So, I took my chances on this book and, again, found so much useful information that’s it’s hard to capture it all in this window. I can’t say enough about the practical advice and numerous examples Susan Campbell lays out in this book.
Suffice it to say that Ms. Campbell has proven to me that I can handle the truth and whatever side-effects come from it. After all, if I tell you I can’t tolerate perfumes and you continue to wear it strong, I’ve got some decisions to make. And, deciding to be true to myself, I am sure I’ll be better off without someone who disrespects me.
In my opinion, it’s a book about learning to stand for something versus accepting the justifications I tell myself and making us both miserable. Or, said another way, being co-dependent always backfires, so why not choose the truth.
There are exercises to work with if you have a partner, whether new or someone you’ve been with for years.
She’s the best! I highly recommend!
Rating: 5 / 5


Sorry…written by a woman for women and I am a man….We are different species when it comes to this stuff, but an interesting viewpoint none the less.
Rating: 1 / 5