I wrote an article talk about how to remain long term relationshop before, but that article is not overall. Today I will talk several points to keep a long term relationship with your dear.

As we know, long term attraction is difference from short term attraction. The key of Long term relationship is  security feeling, you can be a little evil that let the women feel you are not boring. For the short term relationship is that manage to DHV and attract her, negative, freeze, pretend you are not intereted in her, let the girls feel you are special.

However, when girl get on with you a short time, she will know your real life and your real personality. So, to keep a long term relationship you can consider the ten point as follow.

1.The most important of long term relationship is security feeling. Girls generate this feeling by your  daily behaviour and your talking style. You should let your GF think that there’s so many girls like you and she is just one of them. Besides, not only security feeling,  there should be a little Sense of Danger. They should be on balance, that is to said, the sense of danger build on the fundation of security so that your GF know you are popular, but you are belong to her.

2. The sense of mistery. let the girl feel you are unexpected all the way, you can always give her surprise, such as some nomantic ideas.  That let you don’t make so much DHV at the beginning, your DHV should remain a long term.

3.Care. It is important for you be care to her, you should know what she love and what she hate, especially she never say but you know. So, it need your careful  obversation in the daily life.

4.Remain your frame. You can not regard her as your king all the time. To be a jerk once in a while. For example, when she want to date with you, don’t change your primary plan to  cater to her. Keep your own frame, you are not the orbiter travels around her.